13 yr antiquated Pregnant..should she A)Keep it, B)abortion, C)Give it up for adoption?
The Girls Mother (33 yrs old) desires her to Have the Baby and then give it up for adoption,she feel alot of responsible adults want children and cant have it so why kill the a child
The Girls Grandmother (50 yrs old) wants her to keep it...maxim that she will take full responsibility of the child while the 13 yr old finishes conservatory and gets her life together.The Grandmother is in good health off and has adjectives the time in the world and able to Hire give support to such as Nannies.Thinks that abortion is killing a life and putting up for adoption is silly when she is of a mind to help
The 13 yr old girl desires to abort it...she feels that getting pregnant was especially careless and she reconizes she is only a 13 yr and requests the quickquest way out of this
Her 16 yr old Boyfriend is feeling like to accept any of this options and is amazingly confused about all this but likely to accept it.
what should this girl do.Have it?abort it?put it up for adoption??
Answers: she is very lucky to hold a grandmother who is willing to helpout
all i can vote is she should NOT get an abortion that may be the easy road out but it is wrong and she screwed up and she should have to deal beside it
either take grandmas present or give it up for adoption
both are excellent choices but in the fall its her decision because ounce she finishes school etc she will own to care for the child
Not abortion, the girls mother is right, there are so several people out there that want to own a baby and can't that its unreal. I think everyone involved mother, grandmother, the girl and boyfriend involve to sit down and weigh out all the pros and cons of the situation. The girl clearly doesn't want the baby as she's opt for abortion, maybe they should look into adoption some more. i think it depends on the girl. if she really doesn't want to shift through with it and wants to forget it consequently she should abort it. However, if she is willing to go through childbirth after she should have it adopted. I imagine having a child at her age would be a very bleak idea. She wouldn't be able to own a normal life and she is young at heart enough to be the kid's sister! definitely don't hang on to unless she wishes to have it adopted :)
this girl I don`t know only 13 however if she is having sex at this age she should know that have unprotected sex ends in pregnancy. the only personage that can make this sort of decision is herself. her mothers choice is the most thoughful decision more than her own because she does realise there are couples that cant own there own children. but even so this child will do what she wants to do. construe she needs to realise this is a life she is playing beside and she needs to give some considerate thought to what she should do. definetly not abortion. Do not assassinate a innocent life. If the grandmother knows what she is getting into later she should take care of the tot. that way the girl can see her child and be able to know it and give support to care for it sometimes. if for some reason this may not work out very well, adoption is a great thing.
I would not abort the baby , its harm an innocent life. I think the best choice would be adoption. If I have to make the choice I would let the grandmother incline it. So atleast the child knows who is family is biologically. Adoption is a great choice any way wether it be granma or someone else ther are tons of people out here who would love to have children. Well I'm 13 and if I got pregnant I would not receive an abortion. I think that she should keep the child because the grandmother is willing to help her out near it and because that way she can visit the kid if the grandmother keeps it. Unlike if she gives it up for adoption.
I'd right to be heard keep it. It is alot of responsibility but maybe she wants it if she's having unprotected sex so young! I know a few girls who have kids early but it worked out well for them because they be forced to grow up quickly and get their work together and now they're better people for it. if this girl doesn't want the babe-in-arms just put it up for adoption. all surrounded by all its not the babies fault
but this is the girls choice. does she want her babe? whether or not she can take care of it does she know what she requests to do?it sounds like people are trying to be paid big choices for her
I think that the 13 yr old should want, I am not to keen on the idea of abortion but I can attitude the story from every view and I can see why they might think abortion is the solitary solution.
Everyone has the right to live including an unborn fetus. a or c...im 13.you seriously want to kill a little one.thats like murder...plaese consider that..a) keep it and help yourself to the responsibility and raise a great kid or c) give it to an awesome household to raise a great kid.and please dont get surrounded by bed again till your like married.you could have completely advoided this undamaged situation
A) Keep it
Murder or adotion are not the right option. It might be tough and it might be confusing but it would be the right thing to do and it is best to appropriate responsiblilty. I think have it, and tender it to your grandmother. You'll know what's going on with the baby, and you won't be slaughter it. It was reckless, but why should the result hold to suffer?
Don't abort it!
13 years old? Give it up for adoption, you are wayyyy too young to enjoy to worry about a newborn. Give it to someone who can't have children.
i really think she should save it, if her grandmother plans on helping. i think she is blessed with a wonderful, supportive loved ones. Its her body and her choice.
I believe that she should keep it and decide from nearby
I think people should individual get abortions if the mother and/or baby is sick, but its her choice
Keep it. it's not the baby's quirk, and if you have sex, you should accept the consequences. own it...and take responsibility for it...
Let the grandmother take effort of the baby all other option are a sin in the eyes of god Keep it becuase your grandmother will support you. That would be the wisest thing to do!
If grandmother is predisposed to help keep it. anything but abordination
Definately provide it to grandma. let the grandma adopt the child
Do the grandma thing. abort it...i am serious its not undemanding givin par of ur own skin to sumone else...very hard to bring the child up as u r so babyish!
trust me when u sees it she will want it Abort it.
Don't do what your family desires. Do what you want. Either way I would SURELY not keep it contained by the hopes your grandma follows though with wanting to keep it until you carry your life together. No 13 year old requests a baby.. surely not one for grandma to raise. (even if grandma requirements to) It seems like grandma might redeploy her mind after a couple years or even months of help and then here you are beside a child you didn't want to keep but did for your grandma's sake, see how this can't be a good model?
I think the best choice is the choice you want. and that's to Abort. I'm guessing alot of people are going to give an account you the Adoption route, or stick it with Grandma. But you gotta do what YOU want to do. Then go out and find some really righteous birthcontrol. :) good luck
Okay, let's pause here and look at the ages you've programmed.
50 year old=Keep it
33 year old=Put it up for adoption
13=Abort it
No offence, but when you grow older, you become wiser. All you can regard as about is how you don't want this baby. Can I be a touch blunt here?
Murder is a crime. You are murdering a complete and innocent child.
But yeah, you think, I'll be done with it and won't enjoy to worry once it's gone.
I have a friend who works beside patients who have aborted. She's told me that the memory haunt them. They feel bad on what would be the insensible baby's first birthday. They feel the regret about not have a child. Then when they actually want to try and have another one, it is difficult because of their previous abortion.
Quite honestly, I agree next to your mom. I think your grandma has the right thoughts something like helping you out, but then again, you ARE only 13. Finish up academy, get a good instruction, live life. There are plenty of women out there longing for a babe-in-arms that they are having trouble creating. You could change their existence and that innocent soul forming your womb, too.
You say you want to get out of this the quickest channel...but what is the RIGHT way? Please, please, don't abort.
the best, but not so humane option is to own an abortion.
a 13 year old carrying a baby isn't such a fitting idea. the risk of birth defects and complications is much highly developed, including the risk of the baby dying, as well as the mother. this is no movie.
the kid might also cease up having a terrible natural life; i have seen this a few times. this girl i know have a mom that's only like 17 years elder than she is, and she hates it. the mom tries to be more of a friend than a mom, which some people have an idea that they want, but won't when they have it.
the dad being 16 is deeply bad, too, as he will probably have to marry the girl when she is antediluvian enough, or else he will own to deal with a bunch of crap resembling child support.
maybe an abortion is the more humane thing...
That cross-question should be asked be her, not by you !
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