13 years infirm have sex.?
so, me being the big sister, should i bring it up..should our 17 yr mature sister bring it up?? or should we let the topic come up on its own, when shes ready?
Answers: You should agree with her now. I be a very quiet reserved girl, too and not a soul EVER thought I would have sex before I be married because I was the type of girl who wasnt into boys until after all the other girls be.. But I had sex when i was 16 and my parents have no idea, no one ever expected it.
You should in recent times talk to her, she will tell you she wont do that for a exceptionally long time (and she might be right!) but I said the same thing and I HATED chitchat about it because there be no way I was gonna do it.. But things revision, and when the time comes she should know what to do, how to act, how to say no and not be pressured, and so on. Talk to her. Take her out to dinner or for rime cream or something, somewhere alone and discuss it
Yes, you should talk to her about it. I in recent times got out of 8th grade, and you're completely right when you read out that EVERYONE is talking about it within there. Trust me.
Plus, talking to her something like a perfectly natural feat like sex isn't "corrupting" her at all. It's educating her. If she's as smart as you enunciate, surely she'll appreciate knowing about stuff like this. Better a familial member tell her more or less it than crude middle schoolers.
Your mom really needs to suck it up and talk to your sis. She already know. I can garuntee it. I'm 11, and I am the book worm type (except I'm anything but quiet!) I already know about close to everything. Like condoms, vibrators, oral, what ever. I am a fountain of knowledge. I'm not corrupt, just informed. And my mom didn't give an account me. She has tried on several occasions, she only just walks away distubed that i already know more than she would tell me. I'm so "un-disturbed" I'm one of the few my age that don't approaching myspace and think that dating at this age is pointless. I was 13 and a book savvy straight A student. I wish to goodness some one would have talk to me about sex. I had to cram on my own. Even though I was a very suitable girl and was very smart, I be still curious and still had secret crushes on guys. Maybe you should consent to her know about it slowly. Don't like set her down and own the whole "sex" talk. But a moment ago create a kind of relationship with her where on earth sex it not a word that will cause her to get odd looks from you! She definitely needs to start study about it though.
i'd talk going on for it with her now.
my house thought i was the same mode. i was quiet, reserved, never party or anything, and recently, my parents found out that i had sex for the first time (i'm 19 years older and in a serious relationship).
just because she seem one way doesn't mean she IS that instrument. it would be safer to tell her about it in a minute, because yeah, in junior high everyone is going to be discussion about it and you don't want her to be misinformed.
if i were u i would both of u elder sisters sit down and ask her bout it...let her no she can trust u guys not to rat on her.keep it between the 3 of u...dont update your parents till she is ready..if she is ahving sex tell her to produce sure to ues a condo mand always be safe..and net sure its with the right person..im 16 and thats what my sis did to me..and i told her i be ahving sex and she promised not to tell my mom and to this day my classified is safe with her... Yes you should bring it up, and fashion it just between you two. She will take it better from a sibling who have been there.
notify her all about it, and relate her some of the horror stories of what can happen. Tell her you know she is smart enough not to do something so stupid (she won't want to disappoint you).
Your mom's head-in-the-sand approach is exactly what get these kids into trouble. They have no clue what can happen, but see it everywhere and try it out contained by an attempt to be "mature".
It's good you think in the region of talking with her around it. I dont think she will start about it by herself, I be about the same when I be 13 from what I see from your description. I don't know who should tell her, maybe together? I am 17 myself but I don t meditate I would be convienient telling a 13 year old nearly sex. I would talk to her now, but ot adjectives junior high kids are talking almost sex, i'm in junior high and most folks are just excited when kids kiss, but it might be a different story at her school, they're are a few kids who settle about sex at my school.
It's purely disgusting. Children should not have sex. There's no excuse for it.
It's never too early to make conversation about sex. Start now and supply her correct information before she makes desperate decisions based on false information.
agree to her about it now. She probably know everything already, but it can't hurt. TOOO young OPPPPPSS I meant WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOUNG
discuss to her abt it - dnt embaress he infront of the parents dont bother
guys dont want to bang bookworms anyways
let her ask, banter about it to make it smaller quantity awkward joke about it to engender it lee awkward! thats the best way
i would talk to her immediately Heya
I wouldnt sit her down and have a massive sex talk next to her because that will just embarris the girl and make her consistency awkward. I would start slowly but surley talking casually to her give or take a few sex. Like stuff thats happened. Or like 'did you know so and so be pregnant !.' after a few weeks/months start on other stuff like ' dont you hate human being on your period , i do.' and so on. Just so she feels she can make conversation to you about sex when ever she wants. To me i dont guess she will be thinking about sex just however if she is a bookworm girl but its better to be safe than sorry. You could even try when she gets 14/15 giving her some condoms. =] xxx
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